He Expects Me To Be A Porn Star, Right Out The Gate: An Advice Question
Hello Zane, I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time to read this e-mail. I am a 26 year old woman who has become involved with my ex-boyfriend again. We went out on a couple of dates and hung out a couple of times, and we really enjoyed each others company. I finally decided to have my first sexual encounter with him, as we never had sex while we were in a relationship previously; he does not know that I am not that experienced sexually. I have realized that every time that I have gotten to the point of having sex, I hold back a lot because I am paranoid on how it may end. I think that I am somewhat conditioned to believe that all men are assholes, I know this is not true, but I can't help it and I feel like it is ruining my sex life. We finally did have sex, and unfortunately he decided to send his cousin a text message saying that I gave "horrible head" and that I kept on saying that he was big. When in reality I have not had th...